Shohar se talaq lena zindagi ka aik bohat bara aur nazuk faisla hota hai . Islam mein shadi ko ek muqaddas rishta qarar diya gaya hai, lekin agar rishta nafrat, zulm, ya na-insafi par ho jaye aur sulah ki tamam koshishen nakaam ho jayein, to talaq ki gunjaish bhi di gayi hai . Aise mushkil waqt mein aurat ko sab se pehle Allah Ta’ala se rehnumai aur madad mangni chahiye . Dua aur wazifa insaan ke dil ko sukoon dete hain aur behtareen faisla karne mein madadgar sabit hote hain .
Shohar Se Talaq Ka Istikhara
Sab se pehle yeh samajhna zaroori hai ke wazifa ka matlab jadoo ya zabardasti nahi hota . Wazifa asal mein Allah ka zikr aur dua hai jo insaan ko roohani taqat aur rehnumai deta hai. Agar koi aurat apni shadi mein sakht pareshani, jhagra, ya zulm ka samna kar rahi ho aur talaq hi aakhri hal nazar aaye, to use sabr ke sath Allah se dua karni chahiye ke jo us ke haq mein behtar ho wahi faisla ho .
Zalim Shohar Se Talaq Lene Ka Wazifa
Har namaz ke baad 100 martaba “Ya Fattahu, Ya Alimu” parhein. Is ke baad dil se dua karein ke “Ya Allah, agar mera rishta mere liye behtar nahi hai to asani paida farma aur mujhe behtareen rasta dikha . Is amal ko 11 ya 21 din tak pabandi se karna chahiye . Sath hi Astaghfar ki kasrat karein, kyun ke Astaghfar karna mushkilat ko door karne ka zariya banta hai .
Yeh baat bhi yaad rakhein ke Islam mein talaq se pehle sulah ki koshish karna zaroori hai . Dono khandano ke buzurgon ko beech mein la kar masla hal karne ki koshish karni chahiye . Agar sulah mumkin na ho aur talaq hi behtari ka rasta ho, to sharai tareeqe se talaq lena chahiye .
Akhir mein yeh samajhna zaroori hai ke wazifa sirf Allah se rabta mazboot karta hai . Faisla Allah ke haath mein hota hai . Agar talaq mein hi khair ho to Allah asani paida karega, aur agar sulah mein behtari ho to dilon ko jor dega . Har surat mein sabr, dua, aur tawakkal sab se bari taqat hain . Allah Ta’ala har pareshan aurat ke liye asani paida farmaye aur use behtareen faisla naseeb kare . Ameen
